Braden and his whole family would like to wish everyone a HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!
This year has been hard for our family but we made it through and Braden can not be better considering all that he went through in 2005. So with a heavy heart we say good bye to 2005 and WELCOME 2006. We hope it brings you and yours the very best!! We are praying that God will contiue to watch and heal our little Braden and he contuines to grow and surprises us all everyday!! Lots of love from McKinney Texas
Steve, Annie and Braden Bunger
Braden got this Texas Longhorns jacket from his Uncle Junior, GOOOOO LONGHORNS!!!!!
Braden with his cousins, Elizabeth, Jackson Michelle & Jonathan
Saturday, December 31, 2005
Friday, December 16, 2005
Braden's CT Scan Results
Well we have had Dec 15 marked on our calendar for quite a while. This was Braden's scheduled cat scan appointment and our first chance to really see how things were going since his last surgery. So, we had all been a little nervous awaiting the outcome. We felt really confident since Braden has shown no signs of anything out of the ordinary. Just shortly after noon, the CT scan was complete and we just had to wait for the neurosurgeon to analyze them. Our appointment was at 2pm so we has some anticipation building. Finally they call us in and tell us to have a seat, Dr. Weprin will be right in. The doctor walked in with a huge smile on his face and told us he couldn't believe how great things looked. The ventricles in his brain were recessed to normal size and the shunt was working well. He told us his brain looked like it was developing perfectly normal. I think he was as excited as we were, he told us this outcome made his day. He may or may not have known, but it made our Christmas, our holiday season, it made our year. We are in no way out of the woods yet, but for now all is good. We go back for another CT Scan in 3 months, if the results are similar, he doesn't need to see us but on a yearly basis. What a great Christmas gift. We tried to make as many calls as possible to spread the word, but we wanted to post here as well for those who didn't get word.
It was very sad to see the other kids in the waiting room. Many were preemies with similar conditions as Braden has. It made us even more thankful for how healthy Braden is, it obviously could be a lot worse. On a lighter note, Annie and I will be volunteering at Parkland Hospital, on behalf of Newborns in Need, on December 24th. We are going to be handing out gifts and hand sewn blankets and clothes to some of the sick and less fortunate kids. We may interact with some of the families of the preemies. We plan to take some pictures of Braden with us to hopefully help lift spirits. Thanks for checking in and Merry Christmas to everyone.
It was very sad to see the other kids in the waiting room. Many were preemies with similar conditions as Braden has. It made us even more thankful for how healthy Braden is, it obviously could be a lot worse. On a lighter note, Annie and I will be volunteering at Parkland Hospital, on behalf of Newborns in Need, on December 24th. We are going to be handing out gifts and hand sewn blankets and clothes to some of the sick and less fortunate kids. We may interact with some of the families of the preemies. We plan to take some pictures of Braden with us to hopefully help lift spirits. Thanks for checking in and Merry Christmas to everyone.
Friday, December 02, 2005
Visits & Birthdays, fun fun fun!!!
Where do we start with this month? Braden's MoMo, his cousin Jackson, his great Aunt Candy and his GrandBob all have birthdays this month. Happy Birthday to you all. This month has started out with some good news for us. Braden went to the doctor on Thursday Dec. 1st for his 9 month check up and things went very well. He is at 15.5 pounds and 26 and a half inches long. He is doing very well. The doctor said if he did not know Braden and his story he would have no idea he was a preemie. He also told us Braden's muscle tone was excellent, he was very limber, and his hemoglobin counts were great! When they pricked his little finger to take blood, he didn't even bat an eye. With all that he has been through, it is amazing to see his resiliency and just how tough this baby is. He is still eating very well and we cannot be happier about that. He is being spoon fed baby veggies and eating cereal in every formula bottle. This child of ours contuines to impress us everyday.
Braden will have a CT-Scan on December 15th and we will see at that time if his shunt revision he had back in September is working the way it should be. We pray for the best and hope for the best, but we also have to understand that it is not in our control. We have many times tried to understand why things happen the way they do, but we just have to understand there are powers greater than us, and we must accept God's will.
Braden's grandparents from Memphis, TN, came to stay with us this weekend. We had Christmas with them a little early. They got Braden some really neat stuff including his high chair & Baby Einstein DVD set. Braden is already sweetly spoiled but with his grandparents from Tennesse, it's even more so. But to tell you the truth Grandbob and Gramy spoil all of us - They got us a new LCD flat screen monitor for our computer and a new diaper bag to name a few things!!!! Grandma Shirley and Grandpa Gary will have their hands full with Braden this week.
Grandma Shirley is having surgery on Monday December 12th. We are sure that all will go well and she will be back with the boys in no time. We are thinking of her and wish her a speedy recovery. Many prayers are with you Grandma Shirley!!!
Jackson L. Havis, Braden's cousin, had his birthday party Saturday night. He had a few friends spend the night and they ate pizza, popcorn, candy, pickles, cake and anything else they could find. They watched movies and had a great time. HAPPY 9th BIRTHDAY JACKSON!!!!!
Well Sam and John, Braden's buddies have cut some teeth. So watch out McDonald's, you have some new future customers heading your way. Both boys are 6 months and doing great. Baby Tristan, as we call him, is as cute as can be. He is smiling and Grandpa Gary has him babbling a little bit now, but soon he will be talking up a storm.
We took some family pictures and some pictures of Braden for the holidays... enjoy!
Sweet Braden in his Santa hat!
The Bunger Family
Braden in his "First Christmas" shirt
Braden in his Santa Suit!
Braden can't wait for Santa to visit!
Braden will have a CT-Scan on December 15th and we will see at that time if his shunt revision he had back in September is working the way it should be. We pray for the best and hope for the best, but we also have to understand that it is not in our control. We have many times tried to understand why things happen the way they do, but we just have to understand there are powers greater than us, and we must accept God's will.
Braden's grandparents from Memphis, TN, came to stay with us this weekend. We had Christmas with them a little early. They got Braden some really neat stuff including his high chair & Baby Einstein DVD set. Braden is already sweetly spoiled but with his grandparents from Tennesse, it's even more so. But to tell you the truth Grandbob and Gramy spoil all of us - They got us a new LCD flat screen monitor for our computer and a new diaper bag to name a few things!!!! Grandma Shirley and Grandpa Gary will have their hands full with Braden this week.
Grandma Shirley is having surgery on Monday December 12th. We are sure that all will go well and she will be back with the boys in no time. We are thinking of her and wish her a speedy recovery. Many prayers are with you Grandma Shirley!!!
Jackson L. Havis, Braden's cousin, had his birthday party Saturday night. He had a few friends spend the night and they ate pizza, popcorn, candy, pickles, cake and anything else they could find. They watched movies and had a great time. HAPPY 9th BIRTHDAY JACKSON!!!!!
Well Sam and John, Braden's buddies have cut some teeth. So watch out McDonald's, you have some new future customers heading your way. Both boys are 6 months and doing great. Baby Tristan, as we call him, is as cute as can be. He is smiling and Grandpa Gary has him babbling a little bit now, but soon he will be talking up a storm.
We took some family pictures and some pictures of Braden for the holidays... enjoy!
Sweet Braden in his Santa hat!
The Bunger Family
Braden in his "First Christmas" shirt
Braden in his Santa Suit!
Braden can't wait for Santa to visit!
Monday, November 21, 2005
Busy Busy Busy
Braden has had a lot of stuff going on this month. He is eating veggies now and loving them. He went to the doctor to get his second shot for synagis and on that day, Nov. 17, he weighed 15 pounds 9 ounces. It seems to me like the veggies and ceral are staring to take effect on him. He is drinking 4 ounces of fruit juice everyday now and he drinks that so fast that he has to stop to breathe. He is doing great, he is talking up a storm and he almost can say "dada." i am a little upset about that but hey, what ever he wants to say is ok with me.
Braden went to his first motorcross this weekend. Well he did not stay outside, he stayed in a big motor home with none other than Grandma Shirley, Aunt Amber and Big Bad John, one of his best buddies. They had a great time and I was relived that he was with them.
Steve and I went to my sisters 30th birthday party Saturday night (HAPPY 30TH AUNT CLARA) and Braden went with Grandma Shirley. This was the first time since last October 2004 that Steve and I had been OUT with ADULTS for a party. I swear we have not smiled and laughed as much as we did in a long time. We danced and talked and had a great time for once since our lives had been turned upside down we were husband and wife again, we were together and it felt great to have that feeling back. Or course I called a few times to call and check on Braden but I knew he was in good hands!
Braden' great grandma had a birthday on November 18 HAPPY BIRTHDAY GRAN!! We wished we could have been there to celebrate with you. But we will have plenty of time for that.
Braden also has a new cousin. Stephanie, Steve's sister, and her husband John had a baby on Nov. 16. Jude was born in Thailand where they are living to do missonary work. Mom and baby are both fine and at home. Welcome Jude!! We cannot wait to see him.
This Thursday is Thanksgiving and boy do we have alot to be thankful for this year. We will be at home where our familes will come and eat with us and of course watch the Dallas Cowboys play. But on this Thanksgiving we will have a heavy heart for the babies and their families at NICU at Baylor in Dallas... and all babies in NICU's across the world. We will give thanks to the staff at Baylor, just as we do everyday, but more on this day, we will thank all of you reading this. If not for your thoughts, prayers, cards, phone calls and all other wonderful things you have done for us, we would not have made it this far. So with that we wish you all a Happy Thanksgiving and hope you are all safe and with the ones you love.
Braden went to his first motorcross this weekend. Well he did not stay outside, he stayed in a big motor home with none other than Grandma Shirley, Aunt Amber and Big Bad John, one of his best buddies. They had a great time and I was relived that he was with them.
Steve and I went to my sisters 30th birthday party Saturday night (HAPPY 30TH AUNT CLARA) and Braden went with Grandma Shirley. This was the first time since last October 2004 that Steve and I had been OUT with ADULTS for a party. I swear we have not smiled and laughed as much as we did in a long time. We danced and talked and had a great time for once since our lives had been turned upside down we were husband and wife again, we were together and it felt great to have that feeling back. Or course I called a few times to call and check on Braden but I knew he was in good hands!
Braden' great grandma had a birthday on November 18 HAPPY BIRTHDAY GRAN!! We wished we could have been there to celebrate with you. But we will have plenty of time for that.
Braden also has a new cousin. Stephanie, Steve's sister, and her husband John had a baby on Nov. 16. Jude was born in Thailand where they are living to do missonary work. Mom and baby are both fine and at home. Welcome Jude!! We cannot wait to see him.
This Thursday is Thanksgiving and boy do we have alot to be thankful for this year. We will be at home where our familes will come and eat with us and of course watch the Dallas Cowboys play. But on this Thanksgiving we will have a heavy heart for the babies and their families at NICU at Baylor in Dallas... and all babies in NICU's across the world. We will give thanks to the staff at Baylor, just as we do everyday, but more on this day, we will thank all of you reading this. If not for your thoughts, prayers, cards, phone calls and all other wonderful things you have done for us, we would not have made it this far. So with that we wish you all a Happy Thanksgiving and hope you are all safe and with the ones you love.
Thursday, November 17, 2005
Prayer Request for Madison
Hello friends! We're writing today to ask for your prayers for sweet Madison Crowder. She is 6 months old today and lives with her mom, dad and 2-year-old brother. She has been seriously ill since she was 2 weeks old and has been in and out of ICU most of her life.
Madison has a dangerous form of pneumonia that can lead to meningitis in infants. This form of meningitis is deadly. They have already drained fluid off her brain and today they will do an MRI on her spine. They are putting her on a form of life support, not to keep her breathing, but to assist her in breathing. Her breathing is very labored and her heart rate is very high. The support system will assist her heart so it doesn't have to work so hard to ease her breathing.
The Crowder family lives in Utah with no family or close friends up there to help them. They depend solely on our prayers and the grace of God to give them strength and hope to get through this very heart-wrenching time. We are all pleading with you today to please say a prayer for Madison and tell your friends and family to pray for her as well. We've attached a photo of that beautiful girl below. This sweet angel needs us, please pray for her and her family.
Thanks!
Madison has a dangerous form of pneumonia that can lead to meningitis in infants. This form of meningitis is deadly. They have already drained fluid off her brain and today they will do an MRI on her spine. They are putting her on a form of life support, not to keep her breathing, but to assist her in breathing. Her breathing is very labored and her heart rate is very high. The support system will assist her heart so it doesn't have to work so hard to ease her breathing.
The Crowder family lives in Utah with no family or close friends up there to help them. They depend solely on our prayers and the grace of God to give them strength and hope to get through this very heart-wrenching time. We are all pleading with you today to please say a prayer for Madison and tell your friends and family to pray for her as well. We've attached a photo of that beautiful girl below. This sweet angel needs us, please pray for her and her family.
Thanks!
Thursday, November 03, 2005
Braden being Braden
November has started and like every other family with small kids we are trying to avoid colds! Well, it's not so easy. Braden got a small cold and passed it to me. Then over the weekend he shared it with my mother, his MoMo. We were both sick as dogs, and little Braden was fine after a day or so. Just like a kid to bounce back like that. But with Braden we except nothing else. Which brings me to my next topic.
Braden had an eye appointment Thursday Nov. 3rd and although the doctor said that the surgery he had while at Baylor looks great, he is very near sighted and will probably require glasses sometime early next year. Now I know you are thinking, "Glasses? That's it? Oh we handle that," and true we can. But when you are his mother and on a day to day basis you are dealing with every need for this baby it hurts like nothing else to hear that he has to have one more thing to deal with. He has been through so much this year and now the start of next year will start with glasses. And yes we can handle it but that does not mean I have to like it. My nephew Jackson was another baby who battled for his life at birth and he will be 9 in December. He wears hearing aids, and we are all used to them but it hurts every time I see them. Just knowing that there our kids out there who are going through this stuff kills me. And until it happens to you or someone you know and you see it every day it is not the same. Talking to someone on the phone or through email about their special needs baby or child is nothing compared to living with that person.
We lived through it with my sister and her husband we saw it on their faces, in their body language and now Steve and I are going through the same thing. People who are living it with us hurt with us. Yes, it is just glasses but to us it is more than just glasses. Being around Steve and I -day in and day out- you can see how hard it is for us to make it one day at a time. Sleep is here and there, dinner is catch it if you can, clean clothes are a maybe. Thank goodness for dishwashers or we would drink with our hands. Steve and I have not had a night of rest where we did not have Braden to deal with. NOT THAT WE ARE COMPLAINING. But we can not tell you the last time we slept in the same bed for more the 4 hours without having to get up for Braden. We love to do this for him, we strive to do this. We are doing what every parent in the world has done and will do. BUT when you add up all that he has been through and then you put glasses on top of that mountain that he is so trying to climb, he falls back on his mommy and daddy and we are there to pick him up and try again.
We will climb many more mountains and we will fall many more times but for our little family we would like a small hill for once. Something we can just get over, sit down, and enjoy the ride... without doctors or medicine or oxygen or Sleep Study Tests. But like all the other stuff we have been through in our short time as a family, we will be just fine with whatever life brings. Glasses, compared to other things that could have happened, are not that bad. But as a mom speaking from my heart and all the love that I have for my son, it hurts like nothing else knowing one more battle for my little guy to overcome. And I know he will be fine and then I will wonder what was I so worried about. He will live to prove me wrong. Jackson proves us wrong everyday!!
We are very happy about the holiday season coming up. We will be spending it at home and I am sure family will be coming around. Braden is still to small to grasp Santa and all that fun stuff but we are still going to do milk and cookies, and writing a letter.
Braden watch his first Mav's game with his daddy and loved it. Below is a picture of him getting pumped for the big game. He also watches the Cowboys with his PoPo, Uncle Chris and Uncle Leroy and he is always ready for a good football game.
So with this I will try to get myself back in order before I see my son and just hide my emotions in front of him and cry later, just like every other good mother in world does!
Braden had an eye appointment Thursday Nov. 3rd and although the doctor said that the surgery he had while at Baylor looks great, he is very near sighted and will probably require glasses sometime early next year. Now I know you are thinking, "Glasses? That's it? Oh we handle that," and true we can. But when you are his mother and on a day to day basis you are dealing with every need for this baby it hurts like nothing else to hear that he has to have one more thing to deal with. He has been through so much this year and now the start of next year will start with glasses. And yes we can handle it but that does not mean I have to like it. My nephew Jackson was another baby who battled for his life at birth and he will be 9 in December. He wears hearing aids, and we are all used to them but it hurts every time I see them. Just knowing that there our kids out there who are going through this stuff kills me. And until it happens to you or someone you know and you see it every day it is not the same. Talking to someone on the phone or through email about their special needs baby or child is nothing compared to living with that person.
We lived through it with my sister and her husband we saw it on their faces, in their body language and now Steve and I are going through the same thing. People who are living it with us hurt with us. Yes, it is just glasses but to us it is more than just glasses. Being around Steve and I -day in and day out- you can see how hard it is for us to make it one day at a time. Sleep is here and there, dinner is catch it if you can, clean clothes are a maybe. Thank goodness for dishwashers or we would drink with our hands. Steve and I have not had a night of rest where we did not have Braden to deal with. NOT THAT WE ARE COMPLAINING. But we can not tell you the last time we slept in the same bed for more the 4 hours without having to get up for Braden. We love to do this for him, we strive to do this. We are doing what every parent in the world has done and will do. BUT when you add up all that he has been through and then you put glasses on top of that mountain that he is so trying to climb, he falls back on his mommy and daddy and we are there to pick him up and try again.
We will climb many more mountains and we will fall many more times but for our little family we would like a small hill for once. Something we can just get over, sit down, and enjoy the ride... without doctors or medicine or oxygen or Sleep Study Tests. But like all the other stuff we have been through in our short time as a family, we will be just fine with whatever life brings. Glasses, compared to other things that could have happened, are not that bad. But as a mom speaking from my heart and all the love that I have for my son, it hurts like nothing else knowing one more battle for my little guy to overcome. And I know he will be fine and then I will wonder what was I so worried about. He will live to prove me wrong. Jackson proves us wrong everyday!!
We are very happy about the holiday season coming up. We will be spending it at home and I am sure family will be coming around. Braden is still to small to grasp Santa and all that fun stuff but we are still going to do milk and cookies, and writing a letter.
Braden watch his first Mav's game with his daddy and loved it. Below is a picture of him getting pumped for the big game. He also watches the Cowboys with his PoPo, Uncle Chris and Uncle Leroy and he is always ready for a good football game.
So with this I will try to get myself back in order before I see my son and just hide my emotions in front of him and cry later, just like every other good mother in world does!
Monday, October 31, 2005
Happy Halloween
Braden is celebrating his first Halloween today! His first Halloween costume is Superman - and he certainly is our man of steel! We wanted to share some photos of him with his friends and his mommy. We wish you all a safe and happy Halloween!
Also, check out the websites of Braden's best friends.
Parks Family http://www.livejournal.com/users/aparks14/
Guerrero Family http://www.livejournal.com/users/chanda1/
It's a bird, it's a plane...no it's Braden!
Sam, the ice cream cone. John, the chicken. Tristen, the lion. These four boys are too cute!
Braden getting a smooch from his mommy.
Braden and Annie hanging out.
Also, check out the websites of Braden's best friends.
Parks Family http://www.livejournal.com/users/aparks14/
Guerrero Family http://www.livejournal.com/users/chanda1/
It's a bird, it's a plane...no it's Braden!
Sam, the ice cream cone. John, the chicken. Tristen, the lion. These four boys are too cute!
Braden getting a smooch from his mommy.
Braden and Annie hanging out.
Thursday, October 27, 2005
Family on the Oprah Show
Besure to watch Oprah Friday October 28th. Braden's aunts, Connie and Clara were in audience for that taping. In the metro-plex channel 8 at 4:00 p.m.!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Monday, October 24, 2005
Weekend Pics
Here is Braden enjoying his cousin Jonathan's birthday party!
After all that excitement, he needed a nap!
One of Braden's best friends, Sam, snuck a piece of cake!
Soon, his other best friend, John, snuck some cake also.
The day after the party was a sleepy day as well!
After all that excitement, he needed a nap!
One of Braden's best friends, Sam, snuck a piece of cake!
Soon, his other best friend, John, snuck some cake also.
The day after the party was a sleepy day as well!
Hungry, Shots, Football, Birthday and more........
Braden went Friday for a follow up appointment and to get his first round of Synagis shots today. Braden is now 14 pounds 8 ounces. He will have to get one shot every month through RSV season. This is a shot to help premature babies and at risk babies from getting RSV which can cause serious breathing problems. Braden is a real trooper when it comes to shots. I think all those months of being in the NICU and getting poked several times a day has prepared him for the future. Braden received a flu shot Oct.4th and it happened that he received another one today as well. Well our concern was very high but after talking to the doctor's he said the side effects are going to be the same. It will not hurt him that he got two within two weeks, becaue he was going to have to get another one a month after his first one. So now we are just waiting to see if he will have to get a third one. Most preemie babies who receive a flu shot always get another one a month later so we will wait and see. He may get a fever, upset tummy and get very fussy, but if any of you know Braden it does not take long for him to get that way!! He will have to go back to get another shot in a month and continue this cycle till April or May 2006.
Braden is such a big boy now! He is eating rice cereal 2 to 3 times a day now and he had banana's for the first time on Sunday. His babysitter said that he will eat his 4 to 6 ounces of just formula and fall to sleep and then wake up after maybe an hour or so starving to death!!! They will feed him some more and he is happy and will sleep better. That is a good sign that he is ready to eat more and that formula is just not working out for him anymore. He is sleeping MUCH better through the night with a full belly of rice cereal and formula mixture. He will fall to sleep around 9:00 p.m. and sleep till around 2:00 a.m eat and go back to bed. Now he does have his nights where he wants to be up and talking and those nights as cute as they are can be very hard and mom and dad. But we are doing the best we can.
This weekend Braden attended his first football game. Braden's cousin Jackson L. Havis, plays on a youth team, The Kansas City Chiefs, and they had a game on Saturday Oct.22. The weather was nice enough that took Braden for one quarter and then head to my moms house. Braden's Uncle from Galveston will be in town and we will all be together for the first time in at least 3 months. Braden and him had some alone time on Friday afternoon and got a Houston Astros outfit!! Just in time for the World Series GOOOOO ASTROS!!!!!!!!!
On Saturday we also celebrated Bradens cousins birthday , Jonathan L. Havis 7th birthday!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY JONATHAN!!!!!!!!!He had a party at his house with family and friends, Braden of course will only be there for a short amount of time. Braden is still very small and we need to make sure that whatever he does is for a short time and that he does not get to exposure to much of the elements that can cause him to get sick. We know that Braden is going to get colds, and we know that he will get sick but if we can help prevent that in anyway we will....
Here are some pictures of Braden in his Astros onesie!
Braden is such a big boy now! He is eating rice cereal 2 to 3 times a day now and he had banana's for the first time on Sunday. His babysitter said that he will eat his 4 to 6 ounces of just formula and fall to sleep and then wake up after maybe an hour or so starving to death!!! They will feed him some more and he is happy and will sleep better. That is a good sign that he is ready to eat more and that formula is just not working out for him anymore. He is sleeping MUCH better through the night with a full belly of rice cereal and formula mixture. He will fall to sleep around 9:00 p.m. and sleep till around 2:00 a.m eat and go back to bed. Now he does have his nights where he wants to be up and talking and those nights as cute as they are can be very hard and mom and dad. But we are doing the best we can.
This weekend Braden attended his first football game. Braden's cousin Jackson L. Havis, plays on a youth team, The Kansas City Chiefs, and they had a game on Saturday Oct.22. The weather was nice enough that took Braden for one quarter and then head to my moms house. Braden's Uncle from Galveston will be in town and we will all be together for the first time in at least 3 months. Braden and him had some alone time on Friday afternoon and got a Houston Astros outfit!! Just in time for the World Series GOOOOO ASTROS!!!!!!!!!
On Saturday we also celebrated Bradens cousins birthday , Jonathan L. Havis 7th birthday!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY JONATHAN!!!!!!!!!He had a party at his house with family and friends, Braden of course will only be there for a short amount of time. Braden is still very small and we need to make sure that whatever he does is for a short time and that he does not get to exposure to much of the elements that can cause him to get sick. We know that Braden is going to get colds, and we know that he will get sick but if we can help prevent that in anyway we will....
Here are some pictures of Braden in his Astros onesie!
Friday, October 21, 2005
Happy Birthday Jonathan
Jonathan Lynn Havis is 7 today!!!
Braden's cousin
He is having a class lunch birthday party today and will celebrate with family and friends Saturday!!
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday dear JONATHAN
Happy birthday to you
Love Braden
Friday, October 14, 2005
Getting Cold
Well as the days in October start to roll through we are getting some cold days but it is staying warm for the most part. Braden had his first outing in the cold and it was a shock for him. His eyes got big and he did not know what to think. He has known nothing but warm since he got out of Baylor. But we make sure he is well covered every morning when we leave the house. Braden has been going through some difficult adjustments after his surgery. Being on several different medications has been hard for his tummy. His babysitters, Gammy and Pawpaw are paying very close attention to him and they can tell when something is bothering him, so we like knowing that he is cared for so well. Braden is going to the doctor today for a post operation visit then he will have his first Synagis shot October 20th. This is to help him from not getting RSV this winter. He got a flu shot last week we are trying to do whatever we can to make sure that Braden does not get sick this winter season. We have been so happy with Braden and all his mile stones. He is giggling more and he is talking much more, he gets that from Annie, he is focusing more and he is starting to want to hold his bottle and play with his feet. He is such a strong baby that nothing will get in his way.
We would like to thank everyone again for looking at Braden's blog and keeping him in your thoughts. It makes us feel good knowing that we have people who care so much for our little guy!
Check back around Halloween and see Braden in his secret costume!!
Here are few pictures we would like to share with you all.
Braden is wearing his Janie and Jack jacket he got from Aunt Clara's friends at work!
Braden is checking out his clothes to make sure that he matches.
Braden having his first taste of Rice Cereal, YUMMIE!!!!!
Braden dressed and ready to go to church.
We would like to thank everyone again for looking at Braden's blog and keeping him in your thoughts. It makes us feel good knowing that we have people who care so much for our little guy!
Check back around Halloween and see Braden in his secret costume!!
Here are few pictures we would like to share with you all.
Braden is wearing his Janie and Jack jacket he got from Aunt Clara's friends at work!
Braden is checking out his clothes to make sure that he matches.
Braden having his first taste of Rice Cereal, YUMMIE!!!!!
Braden dressed and ready to go to church.
Sunday, October 02, 2005
Back Home At Last
Braden is back home again. This latest episode was tough to take, just mainly because we had all gotten comfortable and felt the worst was behind us. We tend to forget how early he was born and the complications we may face down the road. We have both good and bad news...I guess we'll start with the bad first...Braden does have 4 fresh scars on his head, one was already there - just reopened, to go along with a existing scar. Good thing is they will heal, just painful to look at right now. We think he is in some pain, which is to be expected. There was two-thirds of an ounce of fluid drained from his rear ventricle of his brain. That pressure relieved has caused everything to kind of shift back into its original place. That can't be comfortable. Braden is taking baby tylenol and ibuprofen, but mainly he just needs to comforted by loved ones. That always seems to work best.
Now for the good news....Within 24 hours of his surgery we started noticing changes for the better. First off, his soft spot on the top of his head was just that, soft again. As you may have noticed in many of his pictures, Braden is very often looking to one side or the other. Now he is looking straight ahead and focusing on what or who is in front of him more. Not being doctors, only speculating, it seems like maybe some of that pressure build up was affecting his eyes. He will stare you in the eyes now and this just started, hard to imagine its just a coincidence. Also, he is laughing and smiling more, again seems unlikely to just be a fluke. We think that pressure being relieved helped almost instantly. Now, as long as the shunt continues to perform it's duties, we can move past this and just continue to get better and better.
We want to thank everyone for their continued interest in Braden's condition. Without the consideration and support of family and friends, this would be a near impossible hurdle t face alone. Braden is so lucky to have such loving family who have traveled from Denton, Plano, Galveston, Sherman, and even the state of Tennessee to be with him. I know they would say all the trips and calls were no problem and they wanted to do it, but we know it can be a strain, physically and financially. Long distance calls and gas aren't cheap, so again we are very lucky. Also, we can't say enough about Braden's newest family member - Gammy. Shirley watches Braden during the week along with 2 other babies (Braden's best friends Sam & John). Her and her family have went out of their way to come to Braden's Baptism, visit him in the hospital and at home. We got very lucky to have crossed paths with them.
Thanks again,
Steve, Annie, & Braden
Now for the good news....Within 24 hours of his surgery we started noticing changes for the better. First off, his soft spot on the top of his head was just that, soft again. As you may have noticed in many of his pictures, Braden is very often looking to one side or the other. Now he is looking straight ahead and focusing on what or who is in front of him more. Not being doctors, only speculating, it seems like maybe some of that pressure build up was affecting his eyes. He will stare you in the eyes now and this just started, hard to imagine its just a coincidence. Also, he is laughing and smiling more, again seems unlikely to just be a fluke. We think that pressure being relieved helped almost instantly. Now, as long as the shunt continues to perform it's duties, we can move past this and just continue to get better and better.
We want to thank everyone for their continued interest in Braden's condition. Without the consideration and support of family and friends, this would be a near impossible hurdle t face alone. Braden is so lucky to have such loving family who have traveled from Denton, Plano, Galveston, Sherman, and even the state of Tennessee to be with him. I know they would say all the trips and calls were no problem and they wanted to do it, but we know it can be a strain, physically and financially. Long distance calls and gas aren't cheap, so again we are very lucky. Also, we can't say enough about Braden's newest family member - Gammy. Shirley watches Braden during the week along with 2 other babies (Braden's best friends Sam & John). Her and her family have went out of their way to come to Braden's Baptism, visit him in the hospital and at home. We got very lucky to have crossed paths with them.
Thanks again,
Steve, Annie, & Braden
Wednesday, September 28, 2005
Braden is Going Home!!!
We just got word that Braden will be heading home today. The doctors are very pleased with Braden's recovery and they will discharge him today around noon! Braden was up all night - but he was not crying nor was he fussy. He just wanted to be awake while his mom and dad talked to him. Sending him home today is such a GREAT sign. We are so anxious to have him out of the hospital and back at his comfy home.
Also, we wanted to share some of the pictures that Shannon took at Braden's baptism.
Braden with his mom and dad in Immaculate Conception Catholic Church in Denton, TX.
Braden with his parents and his Godparents, Uncle Chris and Aunt Clara.
The proud Godparents, Uncle Chris and Aunt Clara with sweet Braden.
Also, we wanted to share some of the pictures that Shannon took at Braden's baptism.
Braden with his mom and dad in Immaculate Conception Catholic Church in Denton, TX.
Braden with his parents and his Godparents, Uncle Chris and Aunt Clara.
The proud Godparents, Uncle Chris and Aunt Clara with sweet Braden.
Monday, September 26, 2005
Pre-Op
Braden's day at the hospital went well. First thing they did was weigh him, 13lbs 9ozs. They checked his blood pressure and asked a lot of questions, then just told us what to expect for tomorrow. Finally they drew blood. Braden screamed for a few minutes then in an instant was over it. After that all he wanted to do was eat and then sleep.
Surgery is set for 12:30pm tomorrow (Tuesday). They are hoping to get us in earlier, we have to be there at 10:30am. Of course they could be running behind as well. We'll stay at least 1 night at Children's and then just see how it goes from there. Braden is busy resting up now, he can't have formula past 4am and can't have any clear liquids or anything past 8am. It will be a challenging morning. Thanks and we'll be posting as soon as possible with the results.
Steve, Annie, & Braden
Surgery is set for 12:30pm tomorrow (Tuesday). They are hoping to get us in earlier, we have to be there at 10:30am. Of course they could be running behind as well. We'll stay at least 1 night at Children's and then just see how it goes from there. Braden is busy resting up now, he can't have formula past 4am and can't have any clear liquids or anything past 8am. It will be a challenging morning. Thanks and we'll be posting as soon as possible with the results.
Steve, Annie, & Braden
Suit Pics
Hello!
Just wanted to share 2 photos with you that Jonathan took with Aunt Clara's camera at the baptism. They actually came out really well. Jonathan was very excited about Braden's baptism and wanted to snap a few photos of Braden in his suit. And you can also see Braden's single rose boutonniere. We were honored to have our family and friends at the baptism. Braden's two best friends, John and Sam, came with their families.
The photo below was taken by our good friend Shannon, who is also John's dad. He takes the BEST pictures. He was kind enough to take photos at the baptism and we will share them with you very soon. But this photo Shannon took of Braden is too cute and we just had to share.
Thanks for stopping by...we will have info posted tomorrow regarding Braden's surgery.
Just wanted to share 2 photos with you that Jonathan took with Aunt Clara's camera at the baptism. They actually came out really well. Jonathan was very excited about Braden's baptism and wanted to snap a few photos of Braden in his suit. And you can also see Braden's single rose boutonniere. We were honored to have our family and friends at the baptism. Braden's two best friends, John and Sam, came with their families.
The photo below was taken by our good friend Shannon, who is also John's dad. He takes the BEST pictures. He was kind enough to take photos at the baptism and we will share them with you very soon. But this photo Shannon took of Braden is too cute and we just had to share.
Thanks for stopping by...we will have info posted tomorrow regarding Braden's surgery.
Sunday, September 25, 2005
Surgery on Tuesday
Braden's surgery is set for Tuesday the 27th. I believe it is going to be mid-morning or early afternoon. We are not sure if he will be released the next day or need to stay two nights. After his first head surgery, the next day he was bouncing around and extremely hungry. He was only 5lbs then and over 13 now, so we are hoping the extra strength will help him get through this even better. His Pre-Op is on Monday, and I (Steve) and my mother will take him to Chirdren's in Dallas to have some blood work and evaluations done. Then we'll go back on Tuesday hoping to only stay 1 night there. Thanks to everyone who has expressed so much interest. With so many national disasters and tradgedies going on in our country right now, it is comforting to know so many people still find it in them to care for our situation as much as they do.
On a lighter note, Braden was Baptised yesterday in Denton. He did so well, I think he loved all the attention he received. JJ & Clara, his aunt & uncle are his Godparents, but JJ was not able to be there due to living in Galveston and MS. Hurricane Rita. Chris, another of Braden's uncles, filled in for him. It really went well, Braden didn't even cry when they lowered him chest deep in the water, actually his instincts kicked in and tried to swim. He was kicking his legs and waving his arms, I think if we would have let him go he would've swam to the top. This may turn out to be the ideal sport for Braden since he already seems to have a knack for it, oh great, now we have to think about a swimming pool in the backyard. -- After Braden did his skinney dipping in water we dressed him in his Baptismal suit. It was a little white pair of slacks, a shirt, vest, tie, and jacket. We can't wait to share the pictures with you all. We had a small family "get together" for him afterwards and had plenty of food and drink and fun. Thanks to everyone who went and helped out, it was a real nice time.
Please check back, we'll be doing our best to keep the situation updated. We'd appreciate it if you could squeeze an extra prayer in for Braden, its really a scary time right now.
Steve, Annie, & Braden
On a lighter note, Braden was Baptised yesterday in Denton. He did so well, I think he loved all the attention he received. JJ & Clara, his aunt & uncle are his Godparents, but JJ was not able to be there due to living in Galveston and MS. Hurricane Rita. Chris, another of Braden's uncles, filled in for him. It really went well, Braden didn't even cry when they lowered him chest deep in the water, actually his instincts kicked in and tried to swim. He was kicking his legs and waving his arms, I think if we would have let him go he would've swam to the top. This may turn out to be the ideal sport for Braden since he already seems to have a knack for it, oh great, now we have to think about a swimming pool in the backyard. -- After Braden did his skinney dipping in water we dressed him in his Baptismal suit. It was a little white pair of slacks, a shirt, vest, tie, and jacket. We can't wait to share the pictures with you all. We had a small family "get together" for him afterwards and had plenty of food and drink and fun. Thanks to everyone who went and helped out, it was a real nice time.
Please check back, we'll be doing our best to keep the situation updated. We'd appreciate it if you could squeeze an extra prayer in for Braden, its really a scary time right now.
Steve, Annie, & Braden
Thursday, September 22, 2005
Braden's Best Friends
We are still waiting to hear the details about Braden's surgery. He did have his MRI today and he's doing great. We will post info as soon as possible.
As you know, Braden is cared for during the day at the home of family friends. They also keep their grandbaby, John, as well as another family friend's baby, Sam. Those 3 babies have become best friends. They spend their days playing and giggling with each other. They recently took some pictures together and they are absolutely precious. We wanted to share this picture of Braden and his two best friends. This is John, Sam and Braden hanging out in a soft train. John looks quite comfy, Sam looks a little unhappy and Braden has spotted something up on the ceiling. But they all are such cutie pies!
As you know, Braden is cared for during the day at the home of family friends. They also keep their grandbaby, John, as well as another family friend's baby, Sam. Those 3 babies have become best friends. They spend their days playing and giggling with each other. They recently took some pictures together and they are absolutely precious. We wanted to share this picture of Braden and his two best friends. This is John, Sam and Braden hanging out in a soft train. John looks quite comfy, Sam looks a little unhappy and Braden has spotted something up on the ceiling. But they all are such cutie pies!
Wednesday, September 21, 2005
Some Recent Photos
Well we found out today that Braden weighs 13 pounds 5 ounces and is 26 inches long. We are so proud of him; he's getting to be such a big boy! We have no news regarding his surgery yet. He will have an appointment tomorrow for an MRI and we should have a surgery date tomorrow afternoon. Please keep our little angel in your prayers.
Braden gets his picture taken almost every day. We have been trying to get some fun ones to share with you - ones that really show his demeanor and growth. Hope you like these! Thanks for stopping by and we'll post any news regarding the cyst surgery as soon as we hear anything.
Braden's cousin, Jackson, plays on a youth football league for the Chiefs. Braden is ready to cheer him on!
Braden likes to hang out on his comfy pillow.
Here is Steve's mom, Lynda, hanging out with her grandbaby.
Braden caught a cool nap on a hot, Texas day.
This is Braden wearing his first pair of shoes!
Here's a close up of one foot in that darling shoe.
Braden is starting to fit into the clothes he received at his shower.
Braden gets his picture taken almost every day. We have been trying to get some fun ones to share with you - ones that really show his demeanor and growth. Hope you like these! Thanks for stopping by and we'll post any news regarding the cyst surgery as soon as we hear anything.
Braden's cousin, Jackson, plays on a youth football league for the Chiefs. Braden is ready to cheer him on!
Braden likes to hang out on his comfy pillow.
Here is Steve's mom, Lynda, hanging out with her grandbaby.
Braden caught a cool nap on a hot, Texas day.
This is Braden wearing his first pair of shoes!
Here's a close up of one foot in that darling shoe.
Braden is starting to fit into the clothes he received at his shower.
Monday, September 19, 2005
Results from Braden's CT Scan
Well, we got Braden to Children's Hospital for his appointment for the CT Scan on his head. Everything went smooth, he was in a great mood that day. His Momo & Popo came to be with him. Initially we got good news, the shunt in Braden's head is working, it is draining the excess fluid and has caused his ventricles to recess nicely. Unfortunately, now he has some other issues. The surgeon who performed Braden's shunt insertion believes Braden has a cyst in a rear ventricle. He is certain Braden will need a procedure to correct this. Most likely Braden will need another incision to insert a seperate tubing to drain this new fluid. Dr. Weprin will connect it to the original tubing and it shouldn't be too difficult of a operation, as per the surgeon. Of course to us, we feel like its a kick in the stomach. Things had been going so well, we just hate it for Braden. All that he has been through to have to go through this, its a shame. But, we have dealt with this before and we'll get past this ordeal as well. Braden could have an MRI done as early as the end of this week and then we'll know more, such as an exact date for his procedure.
Braden is so incredibly strong and resilient it is truely inspirational. Whenever we feel sad, we just think of him and what he has went through and it helps us get past it. He is the toughest individual I have ever been around. We feel like everything will be fine, but we ask that you keep Braden in your thoughts and prayers. We know most have you have never let him out, but in the next few weeks we may need a little extra support to help him get through all of this ok. Braden is so big now! He is laughing and trying to talk all the time. He is holding his head up pretty good on his own, doing everything he should be at this age. Thanks for continuing to check back and we promise to have new pictures added in the next day or two.
Steve, Annie & Braden
Braden is so incredibly strong and resilient it is truely inspirational. Whenever we feel sad, we just think of him and what he has went through and it helps us get past it. He is the toughest individual I have ever been around. We feel like everything will be fine, but we ask that you keep Braden in your thoughts and prayers. We know most have you have never let him out, but in the next few weeks we may need a little extra support to help him get through all of this ok. Braden is so big now! He is laughing and trying to talk all the time. He is holding his head up pretty good on his own, doing everything he should be at this age. Thanks for continuing to check back and we promise to have new pictures added in the next day or two.
Steve, Annie & Braden
Wednesday, September 14, 2005
CT Scan
Hello everyone!
Thanks for stopping by to see our little guy. We just wanted to let you know that Braden will be going in for a CT scan on Friday. From 5:30 a.m. til 10:00 a.m. he can have only have Pedialyte to drink. From 10:00 a.m. til 11:00 a.m. he can have absolutely nothing to eat or drink. That's going to be really tough for Braden, but I think our strong baby can handle it.
At 1:00 on Friday we have an appointment with the doctors to discuss all the results. The doctor who did the shunt surgery will be in this meeting so we are praying for good results. We are hopeful that his shunt is working its magic and that Braden's development is good. As soon as we have the results, we'll post them here. Thanks so much for your prayers and for remembering Braden. He weighs about 13 pounds now and is still teething. Every day is a blessing with him - he makes the whole day better and he makes life happier.
Thanks for stopping by to see our little guy. We just wanted to let you know that Braden will be going in for a CT scan on Friday. From 5:30 a.m. til 10:00 a.m. he can have only have Pedialyte to drink. From 10:00 a.m. til 11:00 a.m. he can have absolutely nothing to eat or drink. That's going to be really tough for Braden, but I think our strong baby can handle it.
At 1:00 on Friday we have an appointment with the doctors to discuss all the results. The doctor who did the shunt surgery will be in this meeting so we are praying for good results. We are hopeful that his shunt is working its magic and that Braden's development is good. As soon as we have the results, we'll post them here. Thanks so much for your prayers and for remembering Braden. He weighs about 13 pounds now and is still teething. Every day is a blessing with him - he makes the whole day better and he makes life happier.
Thursday, September 01, 2005
A Note from Braden
Hello everyone! I wanted to send a note to let you know that I now weight a little over 12 pounds. Isn't that great!! I am 25 inches long and I'm just starting to get some teeth. Teething makes me grumpy but my parents give me some good medicine for that.
Anyway, I wanted to let you know about some new rules when you come to visit me. In the fall and winter, we will be in RSV season. RSV is a respiratory virus that affects nearly all babies and can even be fatal. My doctors do not want me to catch this - it could cause very serious problems for me. So if you are feeling sick, you should not come visit me. If you can come visit, you will have to really wash your hands. Go to this website: http://www.rsvprotection.com/ to find out more.
Thanks for stopping by. :o)
Love,
Braden
Anyway, I wanted to let you know about some new rules when you come to visit me. In the fall and winter, we will be in RSV season. RSV is a respiratory virus that affects nearly all babies and can even be fatal. My doctors do not want me to catch this - it could cause very serious problems for me. So if you are feeling sick, you should not come visit me. If you can come visit, you will have to really wash your hands. Go to this website: http://www.rsvprotection.com/ to find out more.
Thanks for stopping by. :o)
Love,
Braden
Saturday, August 27, 2005
Thursday, August 25, 2005
Clinton and Clayton
Hello everyone. We wanted to share an update regarding the passing of Braden's preemie friends, Clinton and Clayton White. Annie will be attending the memorial services for the babies.
Clinton and Clayton are the sons of Joel and Kim and those babies gave a lifetime of blessings in their short lives. We know those angels are smiling at us and watching us from above. "Some people only dream of angels. We held two in our arms."
Clinton and Clayton are the sons of Joel and Kim and those babies gave a lifetime of blessings in their short lives. We know those angels are smiling at us and watching us from above. "Some people only dream of angels. We held two in our arms."
Friday, August 12, 2005
Hi Gran!
Braden wanted to send a big hug and kiss to his great grandmother, Gran. She had surgery earlier this week and thankfully the surgery was successful. Gran is doing fine and Braden sends his love!
Braden has also been doing fine. He weighs 10.5 pounds and is growing every day! He's really happy at day care - he is truly surrounded by such loving people there! We do have some new pictures to share with you!
Here is Braden all ready to head to day care!
Braden likes to have some stretch time on the floor.
But he doesn't like to stay there too long.
His shirt says it all!
Braden's favorite place to nap is on a pillow tucked into a couch corner.
Braden has also been doing fine. He weighs 10.5 pounds and is growing every day! He's really happy at day care - he is truly surrounded by such loving people there! We do have some new pictures to share with you!
Here is Braden all ready to head to day care!
Braden likes to have some stretch time on the floor.
But he doesn't like to stay there too long.
His shirt says it all!
Braden's favorite place to nap is on a pillow tucked into a couch corner.
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